'The Right Thing'

Being a mum within itself is a pretty time consuming responsibility and tough at the same time as you have to make sure your kid is doing 'THE RIGHT THING' - Now what exactly is that

Every household or let's say culture has a few to do's and a few not to do's and based on that you judge what's right for your child and what's not but doesn't this limit the creativity of your child. If you stop them from doing what's wrong how will they know what exactly is the wrong thing before they even do it. When Sireen was born and she had just started walking I had removed all the dangerous things that would hurt but I didn't put safety guards for the stairs etc because I always wanted her to explore her way around. Obviously I did have to be careful but that didn't stop her from doing her new thing 'exploring'. I'm not saying I am the perfect mother but there's no perfect child either.

I feel there's no such thing as 'WRONG' for the child as they are simply innocent checking their new little world out but maybe it's just not the right time for them. 

Enjoy their childhood cause it hardly lasts.

Hope

Sometimes you just put all your effort in things and nothing seems to fall in place..
The moment you want to give up on everything and wish you could start all over again..
Think you might have started wrong..
But at the end all you have is the hope that things will fall in place with time, don't give up but learn from what went wrong
This is exactly how I'm feeling right now..

According to our popular google search engine the definition of hope 'A feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen'

Maybe I am just not trying hard enough..

The Creche Investigation on Prime Time

Now what do I say after seeing that program..I'm sure all the moms out there are surprised, shocked, angry and definitely would have no trust left whatsoever on the day cares.

I'm not saying all the day cares have those kind of staffs but I'm sure it does worry the mothers specially if your child is going there for the whole day. 

But the question is How can you be so harsh to those beautiful innocent kids?? Well I didn't see when it was broadcasted so watched it on Youtube and my heart just melted for those innocent babies. 

I am a montessori Teacher and in my time of learning the subject I understood that the first few years of childhood,  from birth to 6years are very critical. What they see is what they believe and that's what they learn and adopt for the rest of their life. How we say 'Actions speak louder than words..' it's the same for them

But then again the parents know their children best and if there's something wrong or even right they can just sense it.. The program was an eye opener for the parents and maybe they should take it in a positive way and try to spend some quality time  even if it's just 30 minutes with their kids. And  the kids reactions or gestures will be enough for them to realize if their child is happy. I'm not doubting a mother's bringing up here but when I say quality time I mean just her and the baby.. no TV or mobile or laptop.

Xx

A child's smile is one of life's greatest blessing:)

Competition time!

I will be giving away one of my favorite crystal bangles tomorrow on my Facebook page 'The All Trade Shop'
So watch this space tomorrow all you will have to do is share and like my page.
Winners will be announced next week!
Here's a glimpse of what I have:)
One of the 2 below will be chosen.. PERFECT FOR THE SUMMER!

CHUNKY BRIGHT YELLOW CRYSTAL BANGLE

THIN BRIGHT YELLOW CRYSTAL BANGLE

Bye to greys & Hello! NEONS..

Finally the sun decides to show up in this part of the world..
Finally I can put on my favorite neons..

Enjoy the pics

 

It's MAY!

Wow.. this year has really flown by four months have gone by since I got back from my long vacation- Miss it!
Time is really flying and we sometimes don't tend to realize that 'yesterday' will never repeat itself. Things we did, could have done, shouldn't have done.. all this doesn't matter cause that time has passed.
But what matters is tomorrow- What I can do, MUST do and shouldn't do!
If I sit back and think what I have achieved in those past months makes me slightly satisfied - Not fully- as I feel I could have achieved more.
I feel I could have had a more healthier lifestyle and focused on my workout a bit more rather than sit around and eat instead.
I could have focused more on my entrepreneurial goals and could have been where I will be by next month.
Spent more quality time with my daughter instead of getting stressed and frustrated at her for maybe just not going to the bathroom! Silly me!
Every one has there own particular set of goals they plan to achieve this year or in the future
Well it's never to late.. I can still get my acts together and focus on what I want in my life to what's not important in my life!
Well we can also look at this article in another way..
It's ONLY May! And we still have more than half a year to accomplish our goals for this year.. I can still focus on my healthy eating and workout, get my work together and quit on my stress and frustration and enjoy time with my daughter before she gets busy in her life.

“You can have it all. Just not all at once.” 
― Oprah Winfrey

My New Stock! LOVING IT!

Please contact The All Trade Shop to order!
Limited pieces!
Like, Share & Shop!

Facebook!?!

Since I have started my Facebook page 'The All Trade Shop' I have started a hatred feeling towards it well I love it and definitely can't spend a day without being on it but to make your page popular and get likes on it.. who said it's going to be easy!
You come across pages that have 50K or 80K likes and I'm not kidding I have seen one with 220K likes and at the same time you just wish that somehow you were there and enjoying all that liking around. Well on the other side, these pages are a real motivation and when your feeling like your never going to get there just Facebook around and you will see people or companies who have struggled to get there and so can you.
Well it's definitely easy peasy when you are using it for personal gain but if you want to start a business through it it's more like chinese with all those tech words and I don't know what!

Well personally I am a very laptop person I can sit on it for hours and always find something to read, watch or do so spending time on it is not the problem for me but this liking thing can be very stressful as if I already don't have enough of it in my life..lol

Anyways Keep smiling, liking & sharing!

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My new Facebook Page!

I have just started a new business on my Facebook page called 'The All Trade Shop'
Like it's name, we have a variety of different things which are mostly in limited quantity.
We regularly keep updating our products so we have something new for you often.

Please help me grow my business by liking it and sharing it amongst your friends and you can also shop from it too!

Here's the link:
http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-All-Trade-Shop/472756509445805?ref=hl&bookmark_t=page

Thanks a mill!

THE ALL TRADE SHOP

Part of motherhood

Becoming a mother is a beautiful feeling but being a mother is simply just another world. A beautiful world filled with tiny toes, tiny hands, beautiful eyes and those sweet words that make your day. The first time you here them say mama is like as if you have never heard anything ever before; you've been deaf all your life and this one word suddenly makes you hear differently feel differently.
As a mother a lot of responsibilities come to you; in my culture they say the mother's bringing up of the child reflects her character and her personality. This kind of does worry me because I feel as a mother; every mother wants the best for their children; strives for the best for their children so how can she be judged in such a way. She might care a little less, have less time for her kids but at the end she truly does love them. Anyways nobody's perfect but when I look through my daughter's eyes she sees the perfectness in me and believes that I totally rock!

A few quotes on mother


“Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There's no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.” 
Gail Tsukiyama, Dreaming Water

“Before becoming a mother I had a hundred theories on how to bring up children. Now I have seven children and only one theory: love them, especially when they least deserve to be loved.” 
Kate Samperi

She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn't take them along.
Margaret Culkin Banning

If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands?  
Milton Berle

Would love to hear some comments
Xx

A few things I wouldn't mind in my life

for my little princess..

Diamond studded Benz worth $4.8 million is actually owned by the prince of Saudi

The bigger the merrier

A peacefull home

$3000

Mixed emotions

The time when you just don't want to talk to anyone and yet not want to make them feel your annoyed.. the moment where your trying to be happy but deep inside nothing satisfies you.. want to make good use of the time you have but just don't know what to do! Now this doesn't usually happen to me but for the past few weeks it keeps kicking in.

I like to be a busy person well by that I mean I like to keep myself occupied in doing productive things and not just sitting in front of the TV or my FB account but for the past weeks nothing entertains me for long.. a minute I want to read a book and the other I want to learn how to make a woolen hat for my daughter; which by the way is pretty confusing but once you get the hang of it, it gets easy but that's IF you get the hang of it and I didn't!

Hopefully these emotions will fade away just like the cloudy weather and there will be a nice sunny day

'The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.'

Baruch Spinoza Quotes